Sometimes adults feel that they are unable to help their child with
maths because they believe they themselves are not good at the subject. I
don't believe this is the case. Often it is the negative experience of learning
maths that is to blame and not the mathematical ability. Maths is based on
concepts and rules that have to be learned and applied, this is a continual learning
process. A rule learned previously will generally determine how to solve a
different problem in another area. Thus, because maths is sequential, if some
areas are misunderstood or not taught, then it is at least difficult, if not
impossible, to progress.

1: Give lots of praise to your child. Praise them for their efforts. It's not about how clever they are. It's about what they did and how they approached the problem. Praise them for trying hard and perseverance. We are all clever in our own way. Maths does not define how clever we are.
2:Use the methods on my site, other websites and
books to help your child with numeracy. Take
your time, breaking each area down into smaller parts. Make sure your child has
plenty of opportunity to practise so that he/she completely understand before
tackling another area. Ensure that addition and subtraction are sound and
that your child knows lots of maths facts by heart. You could find out what
your child should know by the end of each school year by asking the teacher, or
looking online. Resources to help with reaching these targets can be found online
and even within your home. It helps to make maths interactive and fun - you can
do this with games, board games and manipulation of numbers. You can also include
maths in your everyday life, for example when doing the shopping, to show that
it is relevant and indeed essential.
3: Be positive about maths. Don't keep telling your child that you were no good at maths at school. Maybe you just had a bad teachers! Have a positive attitude and this will rub off on your child. Say aloud that we will do this or at least try our best. Do not give up immediately.
4: I once read that maths cannot be taught - it has to be learned and I agree with this. You need to
give a child the environment and conditions to be able to make mistakes and
play with numbers and number problems. In addition, if you teach children maths
tricks, they start to find maths more of a interesting challenge than a chore.
We often teach and test, which I think is wrong, as children need a chance to
explore and understand maths in their own time and way.
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6: Don't despair with the new methods at school. At school children are sometimes taught new
methods of working out, for instance 'chunking', which many adults find
difficult to understand. It does not matter if you are unable to get your
head around this - what does matter is that your child knows basic addition,
subtraction, multiplication and division, which
will enable them to learn the methods being taught at school. Children also
need time and support to
learn key maths facts, and if you can help them to do this, then the other
methods they learn at school will follow more easily.
7: Teach your child basic maths facts (KS1
and KS2),
for instance, odd and even
numbers and the difference between them. Patterns can also be created
using different numbers of dots or shapes, of which some are symmetrical, which
can help a child recognise the properties of numbers. Make certain they know
their multiplication tables times tables this is an easy one for you to teach , and number bonds to 10, 20, 100 and 1,000. Knowledge
of addition, times tables and subtraction facts are also important, for example knowing that
4 + 4 is 8, without having to count it, or that 7 + 3 is 10 and so on.
Your child should come to know this automatically in the same way they know
their own name.
10: The Maths Professor can also be helpful for
parents. He offers podcasts which help parents teach maths.
Lastly, always have fun helping your child with maths!